Home About Membership Events She-cation Ambassadors Partner With Us Contact Apply for Membership
Membership

Three ways to belong.

From per-event entry to invitation-only Elite, we built tiers around how you actually want to show up.

Try Us

Pay-to-Play

Per-event access. No monthly commitment.

$0

+ $35 one-time application fee

  • ✓ Per-event ticket purchases
  • ✓ Community chat invitation
  • ✓ Newsletter and event challenges
  • ✓ Access to all chapter cities
  • ✓ Upgrade to VIP anytime
Apply
Invitation Only

Elite

For founding ambassadors and brand-partner-tier members.

By invitation

Annual application by referral

  • ✓ Everything in VIP
  • ✓ Founding ambassador track
  • ✓ Quarterly Strategy Dinner with Racquel
  • ✓ First access to chapter expansion
  • ✓ Brand collaboration opportunities
  • ✓ She-cation co-host invitations
Request Invitation
Member Questions

FAQ

Who is SOA built for?
Women age 30+ who are intentional about their lives and tired of communities that feel performative. We are not for everyone, and we like it that way.
Is there a trial period?
Yes. Pay-to-Play is the trial. Attend any event you want, decide if VIP makes sense after.
Why a $35 application fee?
It funds the manual review of every application by our team. We curate the room.
Can I bring guests?
VIP members can bring up to 2 guests per signature event. Pay-to-Play is per-ticket.
What if I move cities?
Memberships are national. Atlanta, Charlotte (launching 2026), DC and Houston (2026), and any chapter we open after.
Can I pause my VIP?
Yes, anytime. Pause for any reason, resume when life slows down.
How do I become an ambassador?
Ambassadors are invited from active members who consistently show up and lift others. Learn more on the Ambassadors page.